Survive a Sexual Dry Spell
www.BenWinkler.com Dating & Relationship Coaching for Women over 40! Visit our Facebook fan page, and for Women ONLY forum! Sexual dry spells happen to everyone. One day you’re loved up; the next you’re single, alone and Mapquesting nearby nunneries. Welcome to your secondary virginity, a dry spell of Sahara proportions. The good news? Almost every dry-speller we spoke to said that celibacy — voluntary or not — was a valuable growth experience, helping some feel

Sex Amnesia
www.BenWinkler.com Dating & Relationship Coaching for Women over 40! Visit our Facebook fan page, and for Women ONLY forum! There’s sex you wish you could forget about, and then there’s sex so good it blows your mind and you can’t remember it. Seriously. It’s called transient global amnesia — it’s temporary, and it can happen after vigorous exercise, hitting your head, or having sex. These activities cause a change in blood flow by creating pressure i

Bad ‘Ex’ behavior and how to avoid it!
www.BenWinkler.com Dating & Relationship Coaching for Women over 40! Visit our Facebook fan page, and for Women ONLY forum! Just because you’re not boiling bunnies doesn’t mean you’re totally over your ex (Exhibit A: last Friday’s 3 a.m. drunk-dialing episode). Just ask Heather Belle and Michelle Fiordaliso, authors of the post-relationship guide, “Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Ex*.” The book’s premise: that keeping your ex in your

Flowers are Overrated
www.BenWinkler.com Dating & Relationship Coaching for Women over 40! Visit our WOMEN ONLY forum What is romance? We all grew up with the same basic idea of how “Mr. Right” should shower us with his love: Open the car door, give me his jacket when I’m cold, wine and dine me, hold my hand as we stroll on the beach, light candles, sprinkle rose petals on the bed — and most importantly bring me flowers. Passion stuck in a rut? Your diet has a powerful effect on your sex drive. Maybe it’s time to shift gears and let eDiets help you keep your engine revv

THE SEX TRAP
www.BenWinkler.com Dating & Relationship Coaching for Women over 40! For Women ONLY forum THE SEX TRAP As I had my morning coffee, the “Dear Abby” column caught my eye. A reader wrote in with a dating dilemma and ended her letter with that often-heard stereotype that “Women use sex to get love, and men use love to get sex.” This is a great summation of the “Sex Trap.” The Sex Trap is similar to the Love Trap, where singles interpret good sex as love. But those who fall into the Sex Trap go